John Winkelman

John Winkelman

April 01, 1951 - May 11, 2026

Obituary

John Lester Winkelman, “Wink”, age 75, of Verona, WI, passed away peacefully on May 11, 2026, at Azura Memory Care after a long-term battle with Alzheimer's and Lewy Body Dementia.  John always saw the best in people, was quick-witted and a hardworking, dedicated provider.  He cherished his loved ones and was a patient guide who taught us how to navigate life with integrity. 

John was born on April 1, 1951, to Lester and Gladys (Weisensel) Winkelman in Madison, WI.  He grew up on a dairy farm in rural Verona.  John graduated from Verona High School in 1969 and went on to attend Madison Area Technical College’s Machine Tool and Die program, earning his diploma in 1971.  That same year, he married his high school sweetheart, Trouti Weiss.  Together, they settled into their lifelong home in the Town of Springdale, where they raised two daughters.

John spent his early career working in State of Wisconsin buildings in Madison, running building systems and putting his degree to use.  However, his lifelong passion for cars and motorcycles eventually led him to turn his hobby into a career.  In 1980, he began working as a salesman at Suburban Wheels in Verona. He later worked for John Erickson Chevrolet before retiring from Symdon Chevrolet in Mount Horeb in 2013.  For 33 years, he was known as “Wink” to the customers and friends alike, helping countless families and businesses throughout the Verona area find the right vehicle.

In John’s younger years, he spent time riding dirt bikes, reviving used cars and motorcycles, and racing RC cars with his brothers.  Always looking for a fun vehicle - “the new toy” - John enjoyed the thrill of the search as much as the find.  

Euchre was his favorite card game, often played with both his family and ‘the card club’, a group of longtime friends. Throughout his life, Sundays were spent at car shows, watching NASCAR races, or finding beautiful scenic routes to cruise.

After retirement, John and Trouti enjoyed traveling together and exploring new places.  Their travels took them to Florida’s Gulf Coast, the mountains of Colorado, the West Coast from Seattle to San Francisco, the islands of Hawaii, Washington, D.C., New York City, Germany’s Rhine River, and Alaska.  They also enjoyed ATV rides on Wisconsin trails and camping in their motorhome together.

Above all, John was always looking out for the safety and well-being of those he loved. He regularly checked in on family members when they were away from home and never wanted anyone doing anything too dangerous. He was known for offering cautious reminders like, “Don’t slam your finger in the car door,” or “Don’t bump your head,” always trying to prevent injuries before they happened.

John is survived by his wife of 55 years, Edeltraut “Trouti” Winkelman; daughters Shay (Andrew) Sartorius of Prairie du Sac and Sara (Matthew) Quigle of Madison; grandchildren Colton and Otto Quigle and Regan Sartorius; brothers James (Sally) Winkelman of Verona; Robert (Julie) Winkelman of New Glarus; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, extended family members and friends who will miss him dearly. 

John was preceded in death by his parents, Lester and Gladys Winkelman; his brother, David Winkelman; his in-laws, Henry and Olga Weiss; his brother-in-law, Karl Weiss; and his nephew, James “Jimmy” Winkelman Jr.

The family wishes to extend a heartfelt thanks to Agrace HospiceCare - especially Stephanie and Ashley - for their expertise and compassion; the staff and caregivers at Azura Memory Care’s Davidson House - especially Janessa for her kind heart and sense of humor she showed John; and UW Health physicians Dr. James Bigham and Dr. Robert Przybelski for their early diagnosis and thoughtful treatments, which gave our family over a decade of cherished memories with John.     

A visitation will be held from 10:00AM until 11:00AM on Wednesday, May 20, 2026, at Ryan Funeral Service - Legacy Center, 6728 Mader Drive, Madison. A service will be held at 11:00AM with a Celebration of Life to follow on Wednesday at the funeral home. A private family burial will be held at Verona Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Lewy Body Dementia Research Fund at the University of Iowa, please visit: Lewy Body Research at Iowa.

To view his obituary and leave a memory, please visit: www.ryanfuneralservice.com


Ryan Funeral Service & Legacy Center
6728 Mader Drive
608-274-1000 

Events

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Visitation
Wed May 20, 2026 @ 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM CDT
Ryan Funeral Home- Legacy Center • 6728 Mader Dr, Madison, WI 53719
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Memorial Service
Wed May 20, 2026 @ 11:00 AM - 11:30 AM CDT
Ryan Funeral Home- Legacy Center • 6728 Mader Dr, Madison, WI 53719
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Celebration of Life
Wed May 20, 2026 @ 11:15 AM - 2:00 PM CDT
Ryan Funeral Home- Legacy Center • 6728 Mader Dr, Madison, WI 53719
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Jenessa Casillas
Friend •
Oh my Mr.wink I will miss you dearly. We shared so many funny moments together I will never forget all the good advice you had for my “young self” you used to say to me. You were such a strong and busy man I gotta give you for putting on a good fight no matter what! May you rest in peace and let your spirit shine through and watch over all of us. Your lovely wife and kids will always love you and include you always. We love you wink 🫶🏻
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Jim Niemeier
Friend •
John approached his illness with courage, dignity, and grace. Dylan Thomas, the Welch poet, felt his father was not struggling hard enough to overcome an illness. So, Thomas wrote a poem to encourage his father to fight harder. Two of the lines said," Do not go gentle into that goodnight. Rage, rage against the dying of the light." John did not go gentle into his goodnight. He was always struggling to be John at Azura. He had a great walker which kept him from falling forward. As soon as he let go of the lower handles, the brakes would go on and it would stop keeping him from going headlong forward. In order to move forward would have to pull those lower handles. Being a long-time motorcycle rider, he was programmed to pull those handles to put the brakes on----but he never gave up trying to master the switch. He wasn't the only one who approached his illness with courage, dignity and grace. Troutie, Shea, and Sara embodied those three qualities in their struggle to deal with this devastating illness.Troutie not only took care of John, she helped all of us as we struggle with the dementia of a loved one. Thank you, Troutie. We will miss you at Azura. Jim Niemeier
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Marty Schutz
Friend •
All of my memories with John were good times. Starting with racing RC cars on carpet in the old Verona HS gym in the 80s to the dirt track he built at home. Then there were all the amazing ATV trips throughout numerous WI counties. I saw my first NASCAR race with him at Joliet along with my first NHRA event also at Joliet where he had a bum foot at the time but it got us all a ride on a cart from the parking lot which was like a mile away. Numerous car shows to motorcycle hill climbs. I'll never forget the Sunday he tried ice racing his ATV on Lake Wisconsin which was also the day Dale Earnhart passed. To many good times to list.
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Joan and Doug Uren
Friend •
Trouti, Shay, and Sara, sending you all our love and sincere sympathy. John wasn’t only a classmate, he was a treasured friend. We will miss him, his sound advice, and most of all his friendship. Hugs to you all.
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Lisa Nesson
Family •
I remember him from when I was a young child, arriving at family reunions on his motorcycle with you. He was always in his leather jacket, looking oh so cool. I'm so sorry for your loss Trouti. He will be missed by so many.
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Lee Falk
Coworker •
Im sorry for loss ladies. I learned so much about customer service from John. May he rest in peace

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