Barbara Kalan

Barbara Kalan

January 12, 1937 - July 31, 2026

Obituary

Barbara Jean Kalan, 89, of Lodi, WI passed away on Friday, July 31, 2026, at Bay Harbor of DeForest, WI.

A funeral service is planned for 11:00 a.m. on Thursday, August 6, 2026, at Dekorra Lutheran Church with Pastor Sterling officiating. A visitation will be held on Thursday at the church from 10:30 a.m. until the time of service. A private burial at Dekorra Norwegian Lutheran Cemetery will follow. Ryan Funeral Home has been entrusted with arrangements.

Barb (second youngest of 6) was born on January 12, 1937, in Oak Park, IL, to Wilfred and Minnie (Griesch) Mulholland. On December 3, 1966, she married Bruno Anthony Kalan.  Together, they brought James and Paul into this world. With her son, David, Barb built her early life around her husband, 3 boys and family in Forest Park, IL. Once the kids were of school age, she began an almost 20-year career with Forest Agency, specializing in providing insurance to members of the International Aerobatic Club.  Barb enjoyed her job and the people/experiences that it provided. Camping with the kids; especially at Okee Lodge, eventually led to the purchase of a lot on Lake Wisconsin and the building of their retirement home, where they remained until early this year.  Barb enjoyed her time on the lake with friends and family. During retirement, multiple motor home trips to Donna, TX helped warm their souls in winter.  These trips and others afforded them the opportunity to see most of the contiguous United States. Barb loved the beauty and peaceful life of living on the lake in Lodi.  In the end, however, Barb became a full-time caregiver for her husband who suffers from Alzheimer’s.

One constant throughout her life was her faith. She was a member of St John Lutheran church in Forest Park, IL; transferring to Dekorra Lutheran church when they retired. Barb was a very active member at both churches. In short, she built her life around what mattered most to her, which was her faith and her family.

She was preceded in death by her son David Armstrong; sisters June and Meryle and brothers Ralph and Glenn.

Barb is survived by her husband of 59 years, Bruno; two sons, James (wife Jamie and grandchildren Jordyn and Teagan) and Paul (Maribel); Denise Armstrong; granddaughter Kristen and great grandchildren Nikolas and Olivia; brother Ron (Lou Ann) Mulholland; beloved nieces and nephews; and many dear friends (as far back as childhood).

A special thanks to the staff at Bay Harbor and Bristol Hospice for the support, compassion and help during her final months.

In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that memorial donations be made to the Alzheimer's Association.

Events

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Visitation
Thu Aug 6, 2026 @ 10:30 AM - 11:00 AM CDT
Dekorra Lutheran Church • N3099 Smith Rd, Poynette, WI 53955
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Funeral Service
Thu Aug 6, 2026 @ 11:00 AM CDT
Dekorra Lutheran Church • N3099 Smith Rd, Poynette, WI 53955
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Sandy McShan
Friend •
Barb and I have known each other since we were three years old and went to kindergarten together and all through grade school and high school. We remained good friends and in touch until she passed away. Barb and I lived a few blocks from each other and she knew my family and I certainly knew all of hers, especially Ronnie the younger brother. Barb had a strong faith in God and I'm sure she is very happy in heaven. I will miss her greatly.
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Kristen N. Armstrong
Family •
I’ll never forget you Grandma and all the time I spent at your house in Lodi, catching Turtles
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Sheila Gempeler
Friend •
I’ve known Barb and Bruno for over 20 years. She was quite the recruiter for our church. Each time I saw her she invited us to church. After we joined and I retired she suggested I should join her Bible Study group. Then it was help make coffee for after church and once I was familiar with the kitchen she thought it would be a good idea if I helped with funeral luncheons. Without all of her suggestions my life would be rather boring! I will miss her, but I know she is in her happy place. 💕
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Roxanne Zetzman
Friend •
We were fortunate to live next door to Barb and Bruno on Lake WI and enjoy her spunk and good stories. May the best memories carry her family and loved ones through this time of loss. Roxanne Zetzman & Family
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Patti and Roger Cardoni
Friend •
We will always remember the friendship of Barb and Bruno. We celebrated many special days at the lake and at our home. She was a great hostess and cook. She will be missed.
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Susan
Friend •
Barb lived her family, friends and pilots. She was a hard worker, feisty and fun. I’m grateful to have been her friend and she’ll be missed!

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