Sandra Varner

Sandra Varner

July 23, 1960 - December 10, 2024

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Heaven gained the brightest angel on Tuesday, December 10, 2024, when Sandra (“Sandy”) Lee Varner, age 64, passed away peacefully at her home. Sandy made her first appearance in this world on July 23, 1960, born to Clark and Barbara (Pilgren) Varner in St. Louis Park, Minnesota. What followed was a prosperous life that defied the odds. Sandy was born with Down syndrome, and the news was delivered to Clark and Barb with the grim message that her condition would take her life at an early age. Despite this prognosis, Sandy persevered and went on to live an active and fulfilling life for 64 more years.

Sandy graduated from Waunakee High School in 1981 and enjoyed supported employment in the community thereafter. During her time with us, she participated in the Special Olympics, competing in bowling, swimming, gymnastics, and track. Sandy loved knitting scarves, watching musicals, attending summer camp, anything Disney, and, of course, having her nails painted. Sandy was also the family expert at folding napkins for their holiday celebrations. Most memories of Sandy will include her silliness, endless hugs, and the way she lit up the room when someone she loved walked in.

Sandy is survived by her mother; sister Victoria (David) Wipperfurth of DeForest; “big brother” Richard (Michele) Varner of DeForest; and “little brother” Thomas (Chris) Varner of Poynette; nieces, Laura (Jon) Bussie, Jessica (Nick) Byng, and Jenna (Aaron) Retzlaff; nephew, Jared (Caitlin) Varner; great nieces, Emma Bussie and Madelyn Bussie; great nephew, Cason Retzlaff; and many other relatives and friends.

She was preceded in death by her father and her niece, Heather Wipperfurth.

The family wishes to extend sincere gratitude to Thrive Dane (residential care givers) for the years of loving care they provided to Sandy and Agrace Hospice.

A celebration of Sandy’s life will be held at 11:00 A.M. on Monday, December 16, 2024, at Ryan Funeral Home, 6924 Lake Road, DeForest. The visitation will be from 9:00 A.M. until the time of the service.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Thrive Dane LLC, 2800 Royal Ave., Suite 210, Madison, WI 53713. Thrive Dane LLC

To view and sign this guestbook please visit www.ryanfuneralservice.com.

Ryan Funeral Home & Cremation Services

Windsor/ DeForest Chapel

6924 Lake Road

608-846-4250

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Kari Taylor
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Sandy always entered the room with outstretched arms looking for the closest person to give a big hug to. I will miss her hugs and her always inquiring as to where is my boyfriend or where is my husband. I loved having her show me her medals earned at Special Olympics. Holidays and family events will not be the same without her presence but the memories of Sandy will forever be in my heart. Kari
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Finn Shepherd
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While I did not work with Sandy often, she was a gentle soul and I enjoyed spending time with her. She will be missed, my condolences to the family for your loss.
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MAUREEN SKONIE
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Oh Barb (and family), we are so very sorry for your loss. You are right in that she is most probably the brightest angel up there. I remember the first time I met Sandy as I was getting to know the Skonies. She gave me the biggest hug and whenever I think of her, the memory of that hug makes me smile. Maureen & Greg Skonie
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Claudia Prolla
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Sandy was so memorable. A great human, full of life and hugs to give. I have wonderful memories of working with her and many lessons learned from her giving nature.
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Caila
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I worked with Sandy 17 years ago. Seeing this made me sad, Sandy was always kind and I am happy I was able to meet her. She brightened my days. I am sorry for your loss. Big hugs!

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