James Carlton Hamre
April 10, 1963 - September 13, 2022
Obituary For James Carlton Hamre
Madison – James Carlton Hamre, age 59, passed away on September 13, 2022, at his residence at the Bay at Belmont Health and Rehabilitation Center. James was born on April 10, 1963, in LaJolla, California to parents Carlton and Jacqueline (Buchanan) Hamre.
Despite the challenges of a 22-year battle with Multiple Sclerosis, James aspired to live a full life. To James, no idea was too large or unachievable. He enjoyed sailing, rock climbing, skiing, and swimming with sharks all while being in a wheelchair. He was grateful for the opportunities provided by the UW Adaptive Fitness program and championed the organization to others with disabilities. Furthering his education, he attended MATC and participated in student government.
From tie-dye t-shirts to his notoriously expressive facial hair, James was unapologetically himself. You never knew how he would style his beard next–short, long, braided, or the time he wore it in beads handmade by his children for the American Birkebeiner. He was an emotional man, often the first to tear up at sad moves, or throw his head back with the loudest laugh in the room. He also loved to experiment in the kitchen creating new dishes, especially spicy ones. He particularly enjoyed using fresh produce from his garden, even picking dandelion leaves for salads. Best put in his own words, “I’m not normal. Normal is boring!”
Constantly seeking new passions, James had many hobbies from scuba diving to making essential oil bath salts. Some of his favorite pastimes included cheering for all Wisconsin sports with a special shout out to the Packers and the Badgers. He nostalgically watched cartoons from his childhood like Mighty Mouse, and his favorite, “Not plane, nor bird, nor even frog, it's just little old me–Underdog.” He was fond of family game nights, his competitive side resulting in dangerous games of spoons as well as hours strategizing over Abalone or Chess.
James’ happy place was at Moon Beach in St. Germain, Wisconsin where him and his family would vacation each year. He was incredibly proud of all his children, whom he loved deeply. He was looking forward to attending his oldest daughter’s wedding, and dancing to Jimmy Buffett’s ‘Delaney Talks to Statues’ during the father-daughter dance.
James is survived by his daughter Madison (fiancé John); 3 stepchildren Dustin, Jarod, and Brenna; mother Jacki; sisters Karleen (Brian) Hunter and Heather (Brent) King; nieces and nephews Colton (Rachel), Dillon, and Wren. He was preceded in death by his father Carlton.
The family would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to all the friendships that James formed through the staff and residents at the Bay at Belmont.
In lieu of flowers, memorials can be made to the Multiple Sclerosis Foundation.
A Celebration of Life will be held on October 1st from 11am – 3pm at Rex’s Innkeeper, 301 N Century Ave, Waunakee WI, 53597. Guests are invited to honor James by wearing tie-dye, Badger or Packer gear.
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