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Jane Elaine Stover

June 12, 1949 - January 19, 2024

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Obituary For Jane Elaine Stover

Madison - Jane Elaine Stover, age 74, passed away unexpectedly of a heart attack in her home on January 19, 2024, in Madison, Wisconsin. She was born on June 12, 1949, to Fred A. and Elsie T. (Brown) Stover in Madison, WI. Although a twin, Jane was a “middle child” with an older brother, sister, her twin, and 3 younger sisters. In a family that large, there was never a dull moment. Each summer the family treasured their vacations that would conclude in Bellefonte, Pennsylvania at her paternal grandparents’ farm, surrounded by dozens of cousins. These experiences informed the person she would become. Jane loved being around people, and being with her was fun. Family was central to her life.

Jane’s summers spent in Madison could be characterized by her time at B.B. Clark Beach and Orton Park. Her family lived in the Bascom B. Clark house, one of Claude and Starck’s Queen Anne houses on the National Register of Historic Places. Jane and her sisters would walk the four blocks to the beach where they would spend the day, beginning with early swimming lessons. In the evening, the neighborhood kids would gather across the street in Orton Park to play capture the flag. She became a competitive swimmer and represented Madison East High School in the Wisconsin State Swim Competition in 1967.

Jane graduated from Madison East High School in 1967. After graduation, she began working at AT&T. With close friends from work, she spent vacations in the Caribbean, and often attended the Kentucky Derby.

Jane met Robert Disch at AT&T, where they both worked. They married and had 3 children. Their only daughter Brenda was born with a birth defect and died shortly after birth. While they had an A&W Root Beer stand in Spring Green, Jane was frequently concealed within a bear costume entertaining both customers and staff. Her marriage to Robert Disch ended in divorce.

As a single mother, Jane raised two accomplished sons—James and Joseph. She received two degrees from the University of Wisconsin-Madison, with an Outstanding Student Award from the School of Education. Her long-term gratification of serving as a tutor to basketball and football players was her pride in watching their careers in the pros. Jane spent her career in education on the faculty at Cardinal Stritch University as an instructor and advisor.

In retirement Jane became a Madison “Ambassador” and staffed the Madison Welcome desk on State Street. That opportunity allowed her a chance to promote her beloved city. During tax season, she worked for the Wisconsin Department of Revenue.

Jane was always busy. She enjoyed being a mentor to friends she met as a volunteer with United Cerebral Palsy, and Chrysalis, Inc. She was an avid gardener who shared her love of gardening with her sons and grandson Thomas, and gave her abundant fresh produce to friends and family. Jane was always welcoming and took great joy in her friends. Playing cards connected her with friends, and those relationships have lasted for years. She was a devoted friend and the person whom people turned to for support in their own challenges.

Jane was a devoted mother, and she cherished her sons and grandsons. They always appreciated the time they shared, which was often, and fun-filled.

For her 70th birthday, Jane and her twin sister (Jean) took their first European trip to Denmark, their mother’s homeland. They met their maternal relatives for the first time. This year, for their 75th birthday, they were planning to take another tour in September to explore another region of Europe.

Jane is survived by sons James Disch (April) and Joseph Disch (Krista); grandsons Thomas and Jace Disch; sisters Joyce Bromley (Daniel), Jean Stover, Judy Schmitz, June Klann (David); nephews Reed Peterson (Nor), Jason Schuepbach, Eric Krszjzaniek (Michelle); nieces Dawn Moreau and Darcy Anderson.

She was preceded in death by her infant daughter Brenda Elaine Disch, her parents, her brother Fred Arthur Stover, Jr., and her sister Janice Lynn Stover.

A Service of Remembrance will be held at 3:00 P.M. on Saturday, February 3, 2024, at Ryan Funeral Home, 2418 N Sherman Ave., Madison, WI. Visitation will take place from 12:00 P.M. until the time of service 3:00 P.M.

A Celebration of Life Gathering will also be held from 12:00 P.M. to 4:00 P.M. on Sunday, February 4, 2024, at The East Side Club, 3735 Monona Drive.

Contributions in memory of Jane E. Stover may be made to DAIS, 2102 Fordem Avenue, Madison, Wisconsin 53704. Website: www.abuseintervention.org

To view and sign this guestbook, please visit: www.ryanfuneralservice.com.

Ryan Funeral Home & Cremation Services

2418 N Sherman Ave

608-249-8257

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  • February 12, 2024

    My condolences to Jane's family. I enjoyed working with her as an ambassador for Downtown Madison -she will be missed.

  • February 12, 2024

  • February 03, 2024

    Our lives were enriched greatly for having been friends with Jane. We will miss her and her joyous laugh, funny stories and wonderful, long-lasting friendship. Our very sincere condolences to all of Jane's family----sending you our love. Tom & Kathy Kelley

  • February 01, 2024

    To Jean and Judy I am so sorry you have lost Jane.

  • January 31, 2024

    I am' So Very sad to hear of Janes Passing. We shared So Many Memories to be sure ! Jane and Jean and her family treated me like family, Still I think how grateful I was to have been lucky enough to have them all in my life. Their kindness will Never be forgotten! My heartfelt condolences to All of her Family of course. Mary Weber (Steinmann)

  • January 29, 2024

    Jane had a joyful attitude toward life and warm heart. Georgia (Hocking) and I have kids the same age as James and Joe and they attended school together at St James. Jane's raised two wonderful boys. She will be missed. Bob Clifford

  • January 28, 2024

    My condolences to the family. I remember Jane being a kind, caring person and a fun loving person. She will be missed by those who her.

  • January 28, 2024

    James/April, Joe- we are so sorry to hear of your mom's passing- remember the good times and joy she brought you. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Deacon/Ann

  • January 28, 2024

    I'm sorry for your loss of a wonderful lady. I lived kiddy corner to Jane and spent many days playing along in Oton Park and BB Clark beach, often walking to school together with Janice, who was my age. I hope she joins Janice and share some good memories of the old neighborhood.

  • January 28, 2024

    What a wonderful tribute to an accomplished woman. She was down to earth, handy at fixing up her house and played a mean hand at euchre. All who knew her will miss her. Dear friend, rest in peace 🙏🙏.

  • January 28, 2024

    Throughout my years I have on and off thought of our wonderful neighbors and how much fun we all had as children (Stover, Wagner, Fuller, Kathy Kelly and many more I am forgetting) playing softball and touch football in Orton Park and swimming at BB Clarke. Those were the days!!! After our family of 5 kids, yours always seemed huge! LOL. And your house was huge and beautiful! Please know that I am thinking of all of you with sadness, but fond memories. I will let my siblings know (Jane, Steve and Ellen. Sadly, Mary Jo passed away 9 years ago). Debby (Haas) Sutherland

  • January 27, 2024

    She will be missed! Always treated everyone like they were part of her family. My condolences to everyone that knew her. She was a special lady!

  • January 27, 2024

    Ah the twins, what a cherished memory I have of these two beautiful ladies, and of the whole family... Spent many wonderful song-filled times laughing and singing with everyone. Will never forget!

  • January 26, 2024

    I am so sorry for your families loss! I will be on vacation during visitation . I will be attending her celebration of rememberance. Again, my sincere condolences. RIP Jane. You will be missed.

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    Lindsay Warren sent Sweet Moments for Jane Elaine Stover - February 03, 2024

    Sorry For Your Loss. Mike,Cindy,Lindsay, Jace Warren.

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    Jason Schuepbach sent Red and White Handled Basket for Jane Elaine Stover - February 03, 2024

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    Irene Jespersen sent Golden Days Basket for Jane Elaine Stover - January 31, 2024

    R.I.P. Jane, Thank You for meeting us , your family in Denmark, that Summer. With love from Your cousin Irene

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